I have a bumper sticker on my car, well, I have many bumper stickers on my car, but the one I’d like to write about today specifically says “Ain’t No Time to Hate.” I mention the sticker because it sums up my philiosophy on life rather simply and today I thought it best to take some of my own advice. One of the wonderful benefits of blogging is that I can return to who I’ve been in happier times with a simple revist to an old post. In December, I authored a post called “Ethics of Leadership” that contained the following message:
Right or wrong, good or bad, it’s all irrelevant if we cannot learn to treat each other with respect and approach the diversity of our humanity with the love of our divine nature. Everyone is living their lives the way they know how. Even those who manifest horrible suffering or prey on others are merely operating within a framework that makes the most sense based on their experiences. We should not ignore antisocial behavior or untruths, but if we orient ourselves from a perspective of tolerance and forgiveness we are in a position to produce the most change. Carl Jung said, “What you resist, persists.” When hate begets hate, the result is hate multiplied. But when hate walks into the arms of love, it is revealed as a powerless illusion.
So here I sit in the eye of the tornado of my life, contemplating what it will take to restore balance and harmony to the very polarized world that swirls around me. I breathe deeply and fully, filling my lungs until they could burst, and then I exhale the toxic invasion of stress and disconnection.
This past week in my Psychology class, I introduced my students to the glorious universe of the human brain. I paid particular attention to the separation of our right and left hemispheres because I believe this is a telling metaphor/example of our human/divine duality. I would posit that the imbalance between the two hemispheres is reflected in our culture of intolerance, ethnocentrism, and gratuitous violence.
We are all very familiar with our left brain, because this is the filter that allows us to operate in a tangible reality. This is the operating system that processes information linearly and makes sense of all the stimuli that saturates our physical experience. Many would say it is our left brain that keeps us sane, but this all depends on your definition of “insane.” For often, it is our left brain that imposes a black and white world on a colorful spectrum. It is our left brain that convinces us of our absolute individuality, sometimes to the point of cultivating a feeling of isolation and separateness that breeds hate and justifies a legacy of conflict, discrimination and abuse.
In contrast, our right brain makes the impossible a possibility. It sees the men behind the curtain. It breaks down walls and births creativity. But many of us neglect our right brain, the part of us that always keeps one foot in the universal and the realm of undefined. We are often trained to minimize this part of ourselves, because it is unpredictable, nonconforming, and generally inspires behavior that would earn the title of “crazy.” It is our right brain that connects us to spirit, to nature, and to each other. It is the piece of us that creates, that dreams, that feels whole, at peace and connected to All That Is. Some people explore their right brain with art or music, others with meditation or spiritual ritual, and still others rely on psychedelic substance. Throughout human history, it is not uncommon for spiritual ritual and substance to go hand in hand. The cultivation of opium for ritual purposes dates back to the Neolithic Revolution. Ayuaska and coca have their ancient origins in traditions of Amazonian shamans, and the sacred peyote has a conspicuous presence in the religion of the indigenous ancestors of this continent.
Therefore, I must ask… when much of our disconnection and antisocial behavior is rooted in our left brain while much of our connected, symbiotic and enlightened experience arises from our right brain, why did we come to define our structured illusion of physicality as a superior way of perceiving reality? Why do we discourage right brain association to promote personal success through a system of conformity and predictable achievements? Why do we punish the use of drugs that suspend our spiritual and creative imprisonment and permit us to connect with those parts of our mind and spirit that generally remind us of our infinite nature?
I am fully aware of the negative consequences that can accompany an abuse of substance, yet I am equally intrigued by the historical overlap of substance and spiritual connection. Is it not possible that our Creator would offer us tools, perhaps gifts, to assist us on our journey into our own existence? Must we deny and ignore the wisdom of ancients across time and globe?
To ultimately determine Who We Are and WHY we are here… one would think it would be necessary to invest sufficient time exploring the part of our mind that is better equipped to answer such questions.
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April 12, 2008 at 11:34 pm
david
I know a creative girl who can sing & dance, but now she doesn’t make a sound. Why so many questions, for you already know the truth. I too had to transend 18 years of orthodox education only to find that I was scared of all the wrong things. I am still here in spite of my left brain’s ongoing efforts to bore me to death.
April 13, 2008 at 2:28 am
Mom
All the power and creativity are in this moment, the present , for that is really all that is. The ego and that pesky left brain that wants to control everything tries to convince us that what is important is what has happened and what can happen, but they are powerless if we bask the present moment. Live in this moment. The past and the future are “powerless illusions.” There is nothing but harmony now. The “tornado of life” is all about the incessant voice in your mind. You are not your thoughts, but the observer of those thoughts. BE aware of the YOU behind the thoughts. BE HERE NOW.
April 13, 2008 at 11:16 am
mrschili
“To ultimately determine Who We Are and WHY we are here… one would think it would be necessary to invest sufficient time exploring the part of our mind that is better equipped to answer such questions. ”
You’re asking a question that most people couldn’t care less about. Think about it; you run in a pretty enlightened circle, and how many people do YOU know who are ultimately concerned with “who we are and why we are here”? Precious few, that’s how many.
Humans in general have not gotten beyond that need to control (or, rather, I think we probably were beyond it sometime in the distant past, but lost our way along the myriad paths to modernization). The power structures that are in place don’t WANT us to figure out the answers to these questions, because we would recognize that we don’t NEED those power structures. A lot of people would be out of a job.
Oh, and that Mom is a smart chickie! Every breath is an opportunity to make a different choice.
April 14, 2008 at 3:31 pm
twoblueday
“Who we are and why we are here.” I think pondering that stuff is very much “left brain.” The right brain knows the answers, and they are simple, in my opinion. I hate to illustrate my thinking with a religious sort of reference, but didn’t Yaweh say to Moses (or one of those characters): “I Am That I Am.” I think it’s the same for us, as individuals and as a species. Accept life, accept the physical universe. We are that we are, we had no choice but to be here, and we found the world as it was/is.
I have always had a sort of viscerally uncomfortable (not the right word, but, . . .) reaction to the alleged existential question “Who am I?” What??? You are who you are, that’s all. You are that you are. Now get on with it, live, do stuff. I am probably not explaining this very well. You know when folks say (often on bumper stickers) Jesus is the Answer (or some such thing)? My mental response is always “What’s the question?”
I also respond negatively when people say, “I’m the kind of person who . . .” What? Take responsibility for your damn choices! Say: “This is what I do in such situation. This is the choice I make. This is what I like.” “Kind of person” indeed. Might as well read horoscopes for fuck’s sake! It’s like fobbing off your own idiocy (and sacrificing your own gift of uniqueness and specialness), on some “archetype” you think you fit.
I could rant about this forever, but it is not my blog. Here’s my take on it: Get Out There And Do What It Is You Choose To Do! Or, As a wise person said, and a wise person named “Mom” reminded us of above, Be Here Now.
April 15, 2008 at 9:40 am
Samantha
Well, I have taken quite a close look on your website and I must say that I find it extraordinarily interesting.
April 15, 2008 at 3:22 pm
twoblueday
I was continuing to think about this subject.
I’m still uncomfortable with ascribing some meaning to existence. It is, to me, a fundamentally superstitious question. By that I mean that it implies we are looking for some overarching being (power/god/”force”
who/which made a conscious decision that we would come into existence to serve out some plan or cause. I think it more likely that our existence is an inevitable result of the workings of the universe (inevitable because possible, if that makes sense).
I don’t mind the question (for philosophical musing): Why is there Something instead of Nothing? I don’t suppose we’ll ever know that, but it helps me to sleep (to steal a line from James Taylor).
The Beatles said it almost right in the execrable song “Let It Be.” Execrable, because, musically, it was uninteresting to me, and included the line of Catholic crap “Mother Mary comes to me.” Anyway, I say “almost” because I think, philosophically, I like the phrase “Let Be” better than “Let It Be.”
At any given moment I have the inclination to overcome my inertia and go outside to weed the garden, or I don’t. How much more do I need to know about myself than that? (Of course, I’m using the notion of “weeding the garden” both in its literal sense, and as a metaphor/stand-in for all manner of things).
Thanks to my host for the opportunity to muse.
April 15, 2008 at 9:17 pm
mrschili
Gerry always make me think more and deeper than I would on my own…